Praise and blame, gain and loss, pleasure and sorrow come and go like the wind. To be happy, rest like a giant tree, in the midst of them all. -BuddhaI am trying to be like a tree, I got news a couple weeks ago that has me very sad. I have only been in love twice, and the first was B, he is 12 years younger than me and we tried once it did not work, 10 years later we tried again and it still did not work, but through it all I have always loved him. While I am no longer in love with him, I still love him and want the best for him. He has stage 3 cancer and will be having surgery Wednesday to have his colon removed. He is very angry and scared and who can blame him.
I am asking all who read this to say a prayer for him, think good thoughts, light a candle, whatever it is that you do, especially keep him in your prayers Wednesday.
*UPDATE: B had surgery and all went well. Now only time will tell.